Absquatulating is a word that feels distant like a whisper from another lifetime, yet its definition resonates deeply with the passing of my grandfather (Lolo). During my reminiscent childhood with the nostalgic laughs and giggles and unbreakable bonds of family, Lolo stood as the storyteller. He gathered the family with his narratives, painting clear images of his experiences in the Vietnam War. Absquatulating, much like my Lolo’s passing, personifies the sudden departure which he slipped away from the family, leaving behind emotions of joy and sorrow. His stories of his courageous actions despite the chaos, which highlights his resilience of his spirit amongst his peers and subordinates. On the contrary, while I was contemplating what to write my blog about I began to search for words that resonate deeply with me and my experiences. Until I stumbled onto this word on a random search when I wasn’t even trying to find it, the word absquatulating made me think of my late grandfather. These memories and stories he told were not just recollections but breathes of courage, sacrifice, and his resilience. Which sentence he taught lessons of courage and perseverance onto our souls and his persevering spirit became an inspiration for whoever listened. Yet, among the warmth of the full family together and the passion of storytelling, there lingered the bittersweet trust and inevitability of his pass, like a shadow that passes in the night, leaving behind laughter and tears. His actions not only on the battlefield but off the battlefield, shows his unwavering resolve for all that knew him. In the spur of the moment, Lolo’s presence still lingers, his stories of wisdom which are woven into the fabric of my life. Though he has absquatulated from this world, his spirit will forever live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him. And as I enclose these words, I find comfort in the knowledge that his legacy has left behind, like a beacon of light that has been guiding me through life’s ups and downs. As I soon will navigate onto an important chapter of college life, balancing my studies, going out with friends, and maintaining strong bonds with my family. I will carry the wisdom he has bestowed upon me, reminding me to stay strong no matter how hard the challenge is and to never give up on my dreams. In the end, absquatulating is not just a word that has a definition, it has a strong reminder of the momentary nature of life, a reminder to cherish all the memories and seize every moment. To hold fast to the memories that bind people together and though my Lolo may have departed from this world, his soul and spirit remains forever entwined with mine and my families, a source of comfort and inspiration as I navigate through my journey ahead especially after college going onto my journey as a true adult. Finally paying taxes and starting to get the job I want. Eventually these teaching that my Lolo has given to me will continue with me and will be passed down for generations to come.
Works Cited
Benjamin, R. (2016, September 20). The art of absquatulating: Is it OK to leave a party without saying goodbye?. Better After 50. https://betterafter50.com/the-art-of-absquatulating-is-it-ok-to-leave-a-party-without-sayin g-goodbye/#:~:text=3-,The%20Art%20Of%20Absquatulating%3A%20Is%20It%20Ok% 20To,A%20Party%20Without%20Saying%20Goodbye%3F&text=Absquatulate.,to%20le ave%20like%20a%20ghost).
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