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Monday, March 20, 2017

The Italian girl --Lauren

It’s crazy to think how big this world is. Our lives only capture what we see, what we go through, and our perspectives on life. As of 2013, there are about 7.125 billion people on this Earth, which shows how little we are compared to everyone else. I had the chance of meeting a girl from Italy during my senior year of high school, because she came to my school as a foreign exchange student. I had her in my government class, and by just looking at her, I wouldn’t expect her to be from Italy. In the beginning of the first semester, we had not sit close to each other, and I didn't even know her name, but I knew that she was a girl that I had not seen before. I noticed that when we would do presentations, she would not go up, so I therefore assumed she was shy. However, I later learned that she did not want to present in front of the class because she had a thick Italian accent. About 2 months into the school year, we happened to sit right next to each other, and that is when we met. She told me that she was a foreign exchange student and immediately I asked her so many questions about her country, (many of which were probably ridiculous). I was so shocked to think that I met somebody from a different country. Later that day, we exchanged numbers, she ate lunch with us, and met my twin and other friends. From that day on, our friendship flourished and we have become best friends. I have had many friends throughout my young life, however this friendship has been the strongest, and has been nothing but good memories. It’s crazy to think that that you can know someone for less than a year, and be better friends with them, compared to someone who you've known for many years. Meeting my Italian friend has opened my eyes to so many new things and to remember to always live in the moment. This experience has reminded me that we as teenages tend to be comfortable with the group of people that we already hangout with, and therefore most of us do not care to meet new people. However, if I hadn’t introduced myself to the girl, I would have never established a good friendship with her. So many of us also think that the world revolves around just us, and that we are the only people who live on this Earth, but we need to come to the realization every now and then, that there are so many other people from different cultures, backgrounds, and even countries. The Italian girl shared with me so many of her traditions, and shed some light to me about her culture in Italy, which reminded me how close minded we can be sometimes about where other people come from. My Italian friend will soon have to go back to Italy in June, however, I know that we will always be friends in our hearts and souls. This experience will always be something that I will cherish and remember. It is also a reminder to open your eyes and hearts to new experiences, and people, because you never know if something beautiful can happen...

55 comments:

  1. Aww this is such a ute story of how you met one of your friends. I like the concept you went for because I agree totally with what you say about living in the moment and coming out of our comfort zones! Great job!

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  2. I liked this stroy becuase it promotes stepping outside of our usual friend bubble. -Rachel Smith

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  3. Lauren this was beautifully written and it has a very powerful message! I loved how you described in detail how you guys became friends. --Megan T

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    1. Thank you Megan, I am glad that you found the message of this piece to be powerful! -Lauren J.

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  4. I like how you led into the moral of the story, like you provided some background then made connections to the point that came across. I like how you said that people are close minded to other people's traditions because people are oblivious to other people's traditions.
    -matthew jimenez

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  5. I really admire this story because your friendship with the "Italian girl" sounds very comforting and it shows how much you two connect through such a short time of knowing one another. Good work!!

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  6. We don't notice it easily, but a lot of the people around us are extremely unique. Just sitting around and talking to someone you learn a lot about them, their culture, and the world around us. I enjoyed this piece about your friendship with the italian girl.

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  7. I really enjoyed reading this piece! it showed me how you can easily connect with others, and that is something not everyone can do, great job! -Lyndsey Ortega

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  8. I love this cause it shows such a true friendship. Also it shows the importance of stepping outside your comfort and making new friends, because you never know where those friendships may lead! Good job!

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  9. I like this story because it shows that even though the world can be very big and crowded with different people, there is always a chance to meet someone memorable. Good Job!

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  10. I love how you acknowledged how if you had not introduced yourself you would not have sparked this friendship that you now so greatly cherish, it truly shows the importance of being brave and socializing with someone new. It sounds like she has changed your perspctive on the world and I am sure you have changed hers as well.

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  11. I really love the message about keeping your eyes and heart open. People miss incredible things and people all the time because they don't want to get out of their comfort zone. It's so great that you can meet someone with a completely different culture and become friends and learn from them. Great job!!

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    1. Thank you Allicia, I am happy that you loved the message that I was trying to convey in my piece! -Lauren J.

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  12. I love your message of how opening our hearts out to new people and new experiences can be life changing and beautiful. I appreciate that a lot because it is very true. I also like your description of the start of your strong loving friendship. Good job girl.

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  13. A cute piece with an important message of learning to step out of comfort zone for the chance of gaining something memorable. When people are stuck to a routine they often don't want or seek out change for comfort's sake, so this experience is a testament to why your morale is so important, great job!

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  14. This story was so cute. I loved the life lesson behind it and I love that you shared it with us because we tend to forget these things. Great Job!

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  15. This piece showed me how much a conversation can lead to and how cool people are if you talk to them. Good job!
    -Justin Huggins P.5 Solano

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  16. I love how you focused on how this new friendship broadened your mind and provided you with a new perspective, and how open you were about all of it. It's one of the most admirable qualities I think a person can have, and I love that you shared a newfound part of yourself with us. Great job, Lauren!

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  17. I related to this so much. I have met and bonded with a few people over a week and had a stronger relationship with them then I ever did with friends I knew for years. Great job!

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  18. This is a great piece, and I love how it shows how outgoing you are and how there are different cultures surrounding us. It's always a great feeling to meet someone new and become great friends with them. Amazing job! -Lisa Ryu

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  19. Aw this is such a beautiful piece! I can strongly relate to the part when you said that it is crazy how you can become closer to someone in a shorter amount of time compared to someone you have known for a while. I have experienced this first hand and have to agree with what you said. I am so happy for you and your friend, and I am glad that you guys have become so close. Overall, wonderful piece!
    -Gabbie B.

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    1. Thank you Gabbie! I am glad that you enjoyed my piece, and related to it in someway! -Lauren J.

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  20. This was cute story about friendship that came with a relevant message to today's society. Well written good job.

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  21. Lauren! I loved this so much. I really enjoyed hearing the backstory of how your friendship with her initially started. I also think it's very sweet that you chose to write about a friend, rather than yourself, for your blog post. I love it!

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  22. This is a great piece about bonds that can form unexpectedly. Your piece holds a very positive view towards friendship that is not always seen.

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  23. This is so cute! I love how you referred to your friend as "the Italian girl" for the purpose of the story and I loved your simplistic writing style because it emphasizes the message of friendship, great work

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  24. This is so cute! I love how you referred to your friend as "the Italian girl" for the purpose of the story and I loved your simplistic writing style because it emphasizes the message of friendship, great work

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  25. I really like this piece because some of my closest friends are from different countries. Despite the cultural differences that my friends and I have, we still are the best of friends. Good job! -Anissa R.

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  26. I totally agree with you! Since I've moved around a lot I have experienced making new friendships and gaining different perspectives. Good job!

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  27. Awww, that's adorable. That friendship bond and the time phrase that you can make a friend. Nicely done.

    Vivian CHiang

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  28. I always think about how big our world truly is and how many people we will never meet. I too made friends with a foreign exchange student and can relate to your experience. Interesting commentary and I like the voice you wrote in. -Vanessa Lai

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  29. I love the emotions used in this piece and it was really sweet of you to help her become more comfortable being from somewhere completely different.

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  30. I love that you wrote this piece because I can completely relate. The same thing happened to me my sophomore year with a foreign exchange student from Switzerland. We became such close friends and while it was heartbreaking when he had to go home, I feel so blessed to have the time to know him. I still send him postcards when I vacation and things like that. Thank you for this piece! I like how you tied it around in the end. --Keala Naipo

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  31. I really loved your piece, it was so cute! I enjoyed how you recalled how you became friends and how people should begin to allow themselves to experience new things by speaking to people they never thought they would have something in common with. Awesome job!
    -Bryanna Torres

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  32. I love the perspective your story gave and the lesson it told on how we should step outside our comfort zone, I really enjoyed reading it.

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  33. I think the message behind your piece is something everyone should take in and consider. Despite how great our friends are, it shouldn't stop us from making new ones! I loved all the details you used to describe how you two met. Great job!
    - Jade B.

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  34. I appreciate how intrigued you were by this girl. You perfectly show how easy it is to make friends and that all you have to do is try. The shy kid in the corner could become your lifelong friend. Your story inspires me to try to meet new people and makes me appreciate the friends I have. Great piece!

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  35. I really enjoyed this piece because it reminded me of one of my closest friends who was also a foreign exchange student, although from Spain. It's really hard when they leave but the memories they make are unforgettable. Great job!

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  36. Your take on friendship is absolutely beautiful and heartwarming. I can definitely relate to this as I have connected to some people that I have barely known quicker than my best friends. Great job!

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  37. I very much enjoyed this story and how the message of friendship is conveyed. Friends are everything and they can open your mind to new things that you wouldn't be able to experience without them. Good Job!!

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  38. I loved this piece! I love to be adventurous and I definitely agree that everyone should explore and meet new people instead of being wrapped up in their own little bubble. I'm so glad you shared the with us! Great job!

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  39. This piece really made me think about the different the little things that are going on with my life. You did a good job sharing the message.
    - Benjamin Chong

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  40. Aww this was so cute and sweet. I've never had a friend from another country before but I look forward to meeting new people from all over the country and other countries when I start college this fall. You right about being more open to meeting new people, I live by that so I won't be in a "bubble" and because we never know what can come from it

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  41. The message of this piece is so wonderful! stepping out of our comfort zones in general, we can all learn to do so! -Somijah Reed

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  42. Wow, love your piece! It's so true! I have some absolutley amazing people in my life, and it's crazy to think that it all started with a simple "hi!"
    Great job! -Jessica B.

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  43. Lauren, this was beautifully written! Not to mention how powerful the message within this story is. This story holds a positive view toward the beginning of new friendships and how some bonds just end up being greater than expected. Cute story!

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  44. The piece well resonates with first and second generation immigrants to the U.S.. Throughout the story the speaker used a warm and glad tone. The tone helped the speaker to achieve the purpose of relating the beauty of friendship to the passage.

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  45. I love how the message was so simple and how you developed such an amazing friendship in a short time. Taking the time to get to know others around us is such an essential part of life. You really never know how unique someone is until you take the time and get to know them. Great job!

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  46. The story feels very sentimental and its nice how you narrated your way to meeting your new friend. Its a really cute story thats rather quirky and the story itself is very powerful!

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  47. This is a cute story about reaching out and making friends. I like how you highlighted that this friendship is the best you had and you would've missed out on it by not paying attention. I also like that it's written in a kind of warm and friendly tone.

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  48. This piece was so cute! I like how you wrote about how this new friendship is possibly one of your better friendships compared to the ones that you have had for years. Its true that sometimes the friendships that you make towards the end of senior year are better than some of the ones that you have had since freshmen year and its sad because sometimes you wish that you could have been friends longer before our last year of school is over.

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  49. This is so cute!! ohmygoodness i loved reading every part of it. Thanks for sharing this beautiful friendship with us. I completely agree that we as teenagers are often close minded with our circle of friends, but just as this piece reveals, it is always good to go out and explore different and new things and find new people to meet. I'm glad that you were able to find someone that has become your bestfriend. Great piece

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  50. This piece shows how easy and simple it is to cross paths and connect with someone I loved it!

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  51. I can appreciate how simplicity of the story and how nice it is to be nice to people and the benefit for both people.
    -Ashley Morrison

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  52. This piece was so cute! it shows you how much someone you met and know for a shorter amount of time are better than "friends" you've had for years. good job! - karina l.

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